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    Ask Gracelyn: I’m recovering from a broken heart, when is it emotionally safe for me to begin a new relationship?

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    Dear Gracelyn: I’m recovering from a broken heart, when is it emotionally safe for me to begin a new relationship?

    Charlene H. – Markdale

    Dear Charlene,

    I’m so sorry to hear about your broken heart—it’s like trying to assemble IKEA furniture without the instructions: confusing, frustrating, and occasionally painful. But here’s the kicker: there’s no universal “all-clear” signal for when you’re ready to dive back into the dating pool. Healing’s more like waiting for a soufflé to rise—you can’t rush it, or it’ll flop spectacularly.

    So, how do you know when it’s emotionally safe to start a new relationship? Check these signs:

    • You can think about your ex without plotting to key their car or dissolving into tears mid-cereal-aisle.
    • Their quirks make you chuckle instead of cry—like, “Oh, you and your weird sock obsession,” not “WHY DID I LOVE YOU?”
    • You’re genuinely excited to meet someone new, not just sizing them up against your past love like a relationship rerun.

    But hold up—don’t dive in just yet if you’re not there. Instead, use this intermission to turn yourself into the star of your own rom-com montage. Here’s your to-do list:

    • Get that glow-up: Snag that haircut you’ve been eyeing—whether it’s a bold chop or just trimming the breakup split ends. Bonus points if you strut out of the salon feeling like you could charm a rom-com love interest in three scenes flat.
    • Level up your skills: Learn to cook something that doesn’t come with microwave instructions. Even if it’s just a killer grilled cheese instead of your usual “ramen with a side of despair,” it’s progress. Impress yourself first—future dates can thank you later.
    • Pick up that hobby you’ve been dodging: Always wanted to paint? Climb rocks? Perfect the art of juggling flaming torches? Now’s the time. By the time you’re ready to date again, you’ll be so dazzlingly well-rounded that your ex will trip over their own feet regretting the day they let you slip away.

    And when you’re finally strutting back into the world, head held high? Oh, honey, you’ll be unstoppable. Picture your ex spotting you across the street, looking like a million bucks, living your best life—they’ll be kicking themselves so hard they’ll need new shoes. But you? You’ll be too busy slaying to care.

    Because here’s the truth: the best revenge isn’t glitter bombs or petty plots—it’s living well, laughing loud, and looking absolutely fabulous while doing it. You’ve got this in the bag, Charlene – go be the legend you were born to be!

    Warmly,
    Gracelyn

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